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L’état du jeu - La peur: Se lier d’amitié avec celle qui nous empêche de foncer

Un épisode simple mais efficace qui discute de la façon dont nous devrions faire face aux défis qui nous causent beaucoup d'anxiété.

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Aug. 8th, 2025 11:45 am
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I got invested in the characters in the comedy and the new episode put them in situations so it took me two days to watch one hour of television.

The comedy is k-drama 'My Girlfriend is The Man' in which a woman is transformed into a man in her sleep - it runs in the family, it's temporary, she knew it might happen. She still has to deal with it and it's weird. it's also about her romantic relationship with her boyfriend. and about sexual-attraction based romantic relationships.
Also in episode 5 the boyfriend is shown seeing the girl when he's looking at the man-shape she currently is. and seeing the girl when he expects & wants her to show up, when it's a different girl who is actually there, and it takes him a moment to realise and see who it actually is. Which is a more accurate-to-my-experience depiction of face-blindness than people having blank spaces where their faces ought to be.

Photo memories

Aug. 6th, 2025 01:13 pm
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Trying to convert old iPhoto libraries from twenty years ago to a format I can more easily use these days. 50 GB, so taking days to do this! Also as the photos keep popping up I run into friends who are no longer with us, some who seem to have disappeared or decided we are no longer friends, couples who are now mortal enemies of each other... and also friends who still are friends and memories of good times past, so there is that. It all feels quite strange, looking at these snippets of past lives.

Short and Sassy square skirt, v.2

Aug. 6th, 2025 12:00 am
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Things have been getting complicated around here, I thought to myself. How about making something fast, and fun, to cleanse the palette? Well, I continued thinking to myself, I do have that tricky fabric that I haven't figured out yet. I wonder what can be done with it?

Details )

Photo of a highly crinkled purple and black plaid skirt, with signature uneven handkerchief hem (with fraying edges), with a black and white narrow bias binding waistband, hanging from a black hanger against a white wardrobe.

Finished, front
Photo by [personal profile] chebe

A quiet Sunday

Aug. 3rd, 2025 08:29 pm
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It was a very quiet day, lessons cancelled and not a lot of energy to do anything so I just got on the 88 to let it take me someplace. Regent’s Street and Whitehall are more interesting from the top deck of a bus. Got off in Stockwell, walked (nearly eight thousand steps) to Brixton, walked around but there was no market on Sunday so no guanabanas. So went to Kings Cross, bought a slice of Basque cheesecake and had a little chat with the cake stall man, bought a couple of things from the Waitrose and had ice cream from the former neighbour, Ruby Violet. The ice cream was elderflower and prosecco and it was very nice. Couldn’t tell if the alcohol of the prosecco was still there but was quite happy for a few minutes 😃 managed to get the 214 back home just as the drops of rain were starting to fall.

Dragons are a girl's best friend

Aug. 2nd, 2025 03:57 pm
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Lots of stuff happening, mostly annoying, leaving me pretty much wiped out. I could not resist sharing this one…

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After the little scare when booking the flight back from Miami on the NY, I decided that, expensive and a faff as it now is, I should get British citizenship, after all these years.

Why hadn't I done it before? Well, until 2016 that didn't seem necessary, with me being an EU citizen. But then I learnt that half of this country kind of don't want me here (I know, I'm being a bit melodramatic there). On the night before the flight back the airline wouldn't let me check in online because 'I needed a visa to enter the UK' and I 'needed a return flight' out of the UK. That night, let's say I didn't sleep much. There's been a couple of other things that have made me think I really should look into this.

I tried to fill in the forms online and then I hit what seems a very minor obstacle: they want the _exact_ date of first arrival in the UK. Well, I came here first on a Caribbean Airways (national airline of Barbados) flight in... sometime late June or early July? 1986. You don't keep airline tickets from 38 years ago. Plus the airline went under the year after I came so no-one there to ask. I entered the country as an Italian, EU citizen, therefore no stamps on my passport. I should imagine the Home Office should have the passenger manifest for that flight so I daren't make up a date and then be told that I forfeited the nearly two thousand pound fee because I put false details in -can't afford that!. Later I learnt there is a lot more to that, apparently you should declare even minor parking or traffic fines, etc. So it looks like I need advice but -lawyers are very expensive! I don't think I can afford that and the nearly two thousand pound fee. So I'm at a bit of a quandary, waiting to see whether I can find more information about this. It is clear that at this point in the game I will be spending what's left of my life in this country -unless something really, really major happens. So it looks like I'll be needing advice on this.

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